Friday, January 27, 2012

Common Ground Marriage Weekend

Common Ground Marriage Weekend
with Dr. Gordon Bals


February 3 & 4
@ DPC

Friday Night, February 3
6:30 - 7:15: What is your marriage metaphor?

7:30 - 8:30: Session 1: Unmasking Marital Division & Understanding the Path to Togetherness

Saturday Morning & Afternoon, February 4
9:00 - 9:30 Process the Evening Session

9:30 - 10:15 Session 2: The Calling of a Husband: Following God into Involvement with your Wife

10:15 - 10:30 Q & A

10:30 - 10:45 Break

10:45 - 11:30 Session 3: The Calling of a Wife: Following God into Awe-Inspired Cooperation with your Husband

11:30 - 1:00 Lunch -- participants will have the option of having lunch together at DPC for $5. Sign up for this lunch will be on Friday night.

1:00 - 1:15 Q & A

1:15 - 2:00 Session 4: The Fruit of Togetherness -- Mutually Enjoyable Sexual Intimacy

2:00 - 2:30 Q & A

PRICE OF ADMISSION: FREE.
THE WHOLE WORLD IS INVITED.
PLEASE TELL THEM.



Thursday, January 26, 2012

Redeem the Time, Part III


In earlier posts (click HERE for Part II) we were looking at this command from our God in Ephesians 5:

Therefore be imitators of God, as beloved children.... Look carefully then how you walk, not as unwise but as wise, making the best use of the time, because the days are evil. Therefore do not be foolish, but understand what the will of the Lord is.

A few more thoughts about this...

The version of the Bible that I'm quoting (the ESV) uses this translation: "make the best use of the time." And that works; that's fine. But it's an interpretive translation. The literal translation is "redeem the time." The verb Paul uses here is the same verb he uses, for example in Galatians 3.13 & 4.4&5... "Christ redeemed us from the curse of the law by becoming a curse for us... God sent forth his Son... to redeem those who were under the law."

The actual word Paul uses here is "redeem."

It means "to buy up, to ransom, to rescue from loss, to make the most of."

In Christ God has redeemed his people from unprofitable, foolish uselessness. He redeemed us from the judgment due to us for our sins.

And now we're called to be imitators of our God. Ephesians 5 lines out several ways we're called to imitate God...

And one of those ways is with regard to this thing called "time." God has created an instrument called time. He's entrusted so much of it to me and so much of it to you. And he's called us to redeem it from unprofitable, foolish uselessness.

... to be continued ...


Friday, January 20, 2012

The Invasion of God... without disguise.

The Bible speaks of a day when we will abruptly discover which side we have been on all along -- even if we've been deceiving ourselves & others in this life. This is a day when every knee shall bow and every tongue confess, either from awe-filled love & salvation... or from sudden, terror-filled realization and awareness.

“God will invade. But I wonder whether people who ask God to interfere openly and directly in our world quite realise what it will be like when He does. When that happens, it is the end of the world. When the author walks on to the stage the play is over. God is going to invade, all right: but what is the good of saying you are on His side then, when you see the whole natural universe melting away like a dream and something else - something it never entered your head to conceive - comes crashing in; something so beautiful to some of us and so terrible to others that none of us will have any choice left? For this time it will be God without disguise; something so overwhelming that it will strike either irresistible love or irresistible horror into every creature. It will be too late then to choose your side. There is no use saying you choose to lie down when it has become impossible to stand up. That will not be the time for choosing; it will be the time when we discover which side we really have chosen, whether we realised it before or not. Now, today, this moment, is our chance to choose the right side. God is holding back to give us that chance. It will not last for ever. We must take it or leave it.”

~ C.S. Lewis



Thursday, January 19, 2012

"When I was your age, television was called books!" ~ The Princess Bride

Below is a great article by Cherie Harder, the President of The Trinity Forum.

Salons & Subversion
Each election year typically brings renewed salvos in the ongoing culture wars, and there is little reason to think that 2012 will prove an exception. But in the midst of all the sound and fury that surrounds such battles, it can be easy to overlook less truculent, if no less effective, means of cultural engagement.

Historically, one of the most powerful instigators of cultural change has been the small discussion group. In France, it was the Salon – small groups who would meet together to talk, gossip, read and discuss. In 18th Century England, it was the Clapham Group, who helped usher Britain from one of the most violent, oppressive, and debauched societies in history into the Victorian era. Today, perhaps the closest equivalent – as well as a gentle yet potent means of pushing back against harmful cultural norms – is the book club.

There are several reasons why a reading group – as modest and homespun as it may seem – is a subversive countercultural effort.

First, the act of hosting or participating in a reading group pushes against the growing cultural tendency towards isolated electronic interaction. So great has our addiction to entertainment media become that the average American now spends more time with electronic media than at work. A recent Nielson survey showed that the average American spent almost 33 hours watching “traditional” TV, and another two hours and 20 minutes watching “time-shifted” TV, almost four hours per week on the internet, and another half hour watching internet video. Crowded out from our lives by our reliance on TV and the internet are socializing and reading.

A reading group gently but firmly bucks this trend. It offers actual and personal interaction, rather than virtual. It is essentially interactive, rather than isolated. And it necessarily involves the practice of hospitality – of opening one’s home to others, preparing food, and breaking bread (or just drinking wine) together. By its nature, a reading group forms community, and knits together the participants into a network. And as sociologist James Davison Hunter has argued in his brilliant work To Change the World, “the key actor in history is not the individual genius but rather the network… and the more ‘dense’ the network – that is, the more active and interactive the network – the more influential it could be.”

Second, reading and discussion groups undermine the growing cultural tendency towards perpetual distraction. Recent Nielson reports indicate that the average American teenager sends or receives 3,339 text messages each month – or more than six per waking hour. Even for less tech-addled adults, the majority of one’s waking hours, whether in work and leisure, are generally spent multi-tasking, and juggling calls, texts, and emails. In contrast, a reading group demands focused attention and discussion. Participants focus on one thing at a time, generally speak one at a time, and are given space to reflect, contemplate and analyze.

This is not insignificant. There is growing evidence that the way we think about things affects the way we think – that submerging ourselves in distraction eventually leaves us not only unwilling, but unable to focus. The art, architecture, literature, entertainment, and public policies of a society unable to reflect, contemplate, or focus will look quite different from one that can.

Third, a reading group implicitly pushes back against a popular entertainment culture awash in triviality, and saturated in violence. If ratings wars drive the television and movie industries to attempt to grab eyeballs with an ever-increasing barrage of slayings, stabbings, sex scenes, and car chases, reading leaves the mind’s eye unassaulted and imagination free to envision the possibilities. It encourages the reader to focus not on the sensational, but to discern and appreciate what is best – most true, insightful, and compelling – in a story.

And in contrast to the well-documented impact of entertainment violence in desensitizing viewers to real-life tragedy, reading and discussing literature both requires and engenders empathy. As author Azar Nafisi beautifully put it in Reading Lolita in Tehran, a novel “is the sensual experience of another world. If you don’t enter that world, hold your breath with the characters and become involved in their destiny, you won’t be able to empathize, and empathy is at the heart of a novel."

As modest as a reading group may seem, it can accomplish great purposes: by resisting the cultural tide pulling us towards isolation, distraction, and triviality, it also cultivates acts and attitudes of proactive cultural engagement. It requires the extension of hospitality, the discipline of sustained attention, the cultivation of discernment and empathy, and the practice of reflection.

No wonder so many revolutions were started in salons.

Some ideas I let go of a while back are starting to come back to life...




Wednesday, January 18, 2012

New Sermon Series Starting This Lord's Day



Decatur Presbyterian Church
invites you to a series of studies in
Matthew 26, 27, & 28.

- the final week of the life of Christ -

"My Time is at Hand."
(Matthew 26.18)

Sunday Mornings, 10:45 am

"Regardless of what anyone may personally think or believe about him, Jesus of Nazareth has been the dominant figure in the history of Western Culture for almost twenty centuries. If it were possible, with some sort of super-magnet, to pull up out of that history every scrap of metal bearing at least a trace of his name, how much would be left? It is from his birth that most of the human race dates its calendars, it is by his Name that millions curse and in his Name that millions pray."

~Jaroslav Pelikan, Jesus Through the Centuries



"What did God do?.... He selected one particular people and spent several
centuries hammering into their heads the sort of God he was... Those people were the Jews and the Old Testament gives an account of the hammering process. Then comes the real shock. Among these Jews there suddenly turns up a man who goes about talking as if he was God. He claims to forgive sins. He says he has always existed. He says he is coming to judge the world at the end of time....

"I am trying here to prevent anyone saying the really foolish thing that people often say about him: 'I'm ready to accept Jesus as a great moral teacher, but I don't accept his claim to be God.' That is the one thing we must not say. A man who was merely a man and said the sort of things Jesus said would not be a great moral teacher. He would either be a lunatic - on a level with the man who says he is a poached egg - or else he would be the Devil of Hell. You must make your choice. Either this man was, and is, the Son of God: or else a madman or something worse. You can shut him up for a fool, you can spit at him and kill him as a demon; or you can fall at his feet and call him Lord and God. But let us not come with any patronizing nonsense about his being a great human teacher. He has not left that open to us. He did not intend to."

~C.S. Lewis, Mere Christianity

Monday, January 16, 2012

"For you always have the poor with you, but you will not always have me."


While defending the woman who anointed him with the costly ointment, and calling it a "beautiful thing," Jesus said, "For you always have the poor with you, but you will not always have me." (Some of those nearby had criticized the woman: "This could have been sold for a large sum and given to the poor!") The account is in Matthew 26.6-13.

I use to read this and think that poverty really is a perpetual, unsolvable problem. Jesus says so right here. The poor will always be with us.

But in my study this morning, I realized afresh that that's a bit of a cynical interpretation to walk away with. Jesus is actually quoting Moses in Deuteronomy 15:11:
"For there will never cease to be poor in the land. Therefore I command you, ‘You shall open wide your hand to your brother, to the needy and to the poor, in your land.’"
What was Moses' (and thereby God's - for in the Scriptures Moses is speaking for God) stance on poverty? Three things might be said:

  • Just a few verses earlier in Deuteronomy 15 (verses 4, 5, & 6), we read,
    "But there will be no poor among you; for the LORD will bless you in the land that the LORD your God is giving you for an inheritance to possess—if only you will strictly obey the voice of the LORD your God, being careful to do all this commandment that I command you today. For the LORD your God will bless you, as he promised you, and you shall lend to many nations, but you shall not borrow, and you shall rule over many nations, but they shall not rule over you."
    This means that if we are faithful, poverty will cease to be the blight it is today. Sin causes or sustains poverty in a whole host of ways -- either our own individual sin (for example, substance abuse, a gambling addiction, or a failure to be diligent at our work) or our connection to the sins of others (the child of a father who abused substances, etc.). Or - and this is just as devastating - a sinful culture that creates social structures that themselves create poverty, make it difficult for people to find work, etc. But in general, the first thing Moses seems to say on the issue is that faithfulness to God would reduce poverty.

  • Moses goes on to say this in verses 7-10 of Deuteronomy 15,
    “If among you, one of your brothers should become poor, in any of your towns within your land that the LORD your God is giving you, you shall not harden your heart or shut your hand against your poor brother, but you shall open your hand to him and lend him sufficient for his need, whatever it may be. Take care lest there be an unworthy thought in your heart and you say, ‘The seventh year, the year of release is near,’ and your eye look grudgingly on your poor brother, and you give him nothing, and he cry to the LORD against you, and you be guilty of sin. You shall give to him freely, and your heart shall not be grudging when you give to him, because for this the LORD your God will bless you in all your work and in all that you undertake."
    Moses'/God's/Jesus' position on poverty can hardly be one of "What's the use? It's a problem that defies all remedy." Godly generosity reduces poverty.

  • But... when studying what God's Law has to say about poverty (and how to minister to it), it's also important to understand this: handouts are not the first option. The first thing the Law of God recommends is forgivable loans (some of which are referred to in the passage quoted above). Next, the Loving Law of God urges that we give the poor some work to do. For example, Leviticus 23.22:
    "And when you reap the harvest of your land, you shall not reap your field right up to its edge, nor shall you gather the gleanings after your harvest. You shall leave them for the poor and for the sojourner: I am the LORD your God."
All in all, looking into the context of Jesus' remark at his anointing is a good reminder that our God does not devalue the poor. Nor does he devalue our ministry to them. Just the opposite, in fact.

Poverty is not hopeless.